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Is God Disappointed in Me? 5 Reasons He's Not
Some days, it seems like we fail in every area. When these things happen, are we disappointing God? Is he looking down on us with his arms crossed, shaking his head, or rolling his eyes? Here are five reasons to believe he is not.

Cheryl Balcom
Jun 227 min read


Nothing is "Just" Anything
With God, nothing is “just” anything. Every act of kindness, faith, obedience, and love–no matter how big or small—matters in God’s economy. That’s what Jesus taught and modeled for us.

Cheryl Balcom
May 253 min read


3 Books that Point the Perfectionist to God’s Perfect Grace
For those of us looking for peace and freedom from perfectionistic tendencies, I recommend the following books.

Cheryl Balcom
Apr 227 min read


That’s Not Your Father’s Voice: How to Silence Your Inner Critic
Whatever we call it, it’s not from God. Though it can be a pattern of thinking that becomes ingrained, it doesn't have to stay that way.

Cheryl Balcom
Apr 87 min read


If I Have Matching Dishes, But Have Not Love ...
"Should I just ... throw it away?"

Cheryl Balcom
Mar 183 min read


Justification: Deep Grace, Dazzling Joy
"Justification" may sound as legal as wrought iron, but it symbolizes a soft pillow on which we can rest—or a gentle yoke shared by Another.

Cheryl Balcom
Mar 47 min read


I Don’t Know What I Expected, But This Wasn’t It: Confessing a Critical Spirit
Our fixation on self turns outward in an ugly manifestation of our inner workings, causing harsh appraisal of others. This is not of God.

Cheryl Balcom
Feb 46 min read


A Sacrifice of Praise: When It Hurts Too Much to Be Jolly
Your praise doesn't have to be exuberant, as if you still didn't have questions. God is still worthy of praise, even hard praise.

Cheryl Balcom
Dec 17, 20244 min read


The Weary World Rejoices
Like pink aluminum Christmas trees, contemporary Christmas songs seemed so far from celebrating the birth of our Savior!

Cheryl Balcom
Dec 10, 20244 min read


The Road I Thought Was Meant For Me
My strength is draining,
my courage waning,
I find myself whining,
and calling for You.

Cheryl Balcom
Nov 5, 20242 min read


People Over Perfection: 5 Tips to Help You When Tiny Distractions Take Over
There comes a time when preserving our relationship with others must trump our desire to have control.

Cheryl Balcom
Oct 15, 20245 min read


Laughing (at Yourself) is Grace
Learn from me and my self-righteous, disastrous lyric interpretations. We need to stop taking ourselves so seriously.

Cheryl Balcom
Oct 8, 20242 min read


The Bible's Answer for our Imperfect Faith: Jesus
We know the answer is Jesus, and we come to him—to ask our questions, to intercede for others. And yet our flesh needs evidence, proof.

Cheryl Balcom
Sep 8, 20247 min read


The Bible's Answer for our Imperfect Bodies: Renewal
God didn't want this for us either. But He allowed it so that we could understand how weak we truly are, and how strong He always will be.

Cheryl Balcom
Aug 25, 20245 min read


The Bible’s Answer to an Imperfect Past: Forgiveness
Thankfully, our salvation is not dependent on our past. It depends solely on the love and grace of Jesus Christ.

Cheryl Balcom
Aug 8, 20245 min read


The Bible's Answer for an Imperfect World: Trust
Though the current condition of our world is disheartening, there is a bigger picture here: sin’s reign on earth will only last so long.

Cheryl Balcom
Jul 24, 20244 min read


The Bible's Answer for Imperfect People: Grace
The reality is that people will always disappoint. Still, we act surprised when those we love fall short of perfection.

Cheryl Balcom
Jul 8, 20245 min read


How to Trade Expectations for a Grateful, Content Heart
Rather than seeing the intent of my husband's heart, too often I focused on how his gift of help did not meet my expectations.

Cheryl Balcom
Jun 19, 20243 min read


How to Find Your Happy Ending When Life Doesn’t Follow Your Script
Real life doesn't always follow the script in our heads.

Cheryl Balcom
Jun 3, 20245 min read


4 Truths that Help Perfectionists Find Peace When Making Decisions
For those of us who struggle with perfectionistic tendencies, it can be difficult to find peace when making decisions.

Cheryl Balcom
Apr 5, 20245 min read
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